Ain’t nothin been going on the last few weeks but I try to write about the things that do…..
What do you do when you have a friend that is a ho? A married ho? A married ho that is sloppy with her situation and at least could hide this from her kids? My friend/neighbor, whatever you want to call it, has an addiction. To men. Many men. Very many men. Her husbadn of 12 years has deployed and most recently she and him have not been getting along. So when he left, and the extra money started coming in, I guess she felt like she “found herself”.
Now…. let’s rewind a little bit to when I met her.
*Rewinding*
She was my walking buddy, a group of us would go walking and she eventually joined the group. When I met her , what she wore to go walking, was what she felt was okay to wear throughout the day. Same with the hair. She was a nice person and polite and would do for anybody though. Now….Let’s fast Forward.
*Fast forwarding*
Now, the outfits are Named brand everything (RocaWear and BaByPhat), and tight to be damned and the polite talk has changed to “fuck this” and “fuck that” and “I don’t give a damn about nothing or nobody” and “Who cares”. ……HUH? Then, everyweekend since November, she has gone out. Now, I believe in having fun, and I belive in doing for yourself, but am I wrong to think that when you got 4 kids…(she has 4 kids , all by her husband, and I have 3)….and you are the only parent home since the dad is in Iraq, you should calm down on the outings……especially going to the club and JUST the clubs outings….. Because I know the situation, it’s similar to mine in the routine, the weekend is really the only time , besides holidays, you really can enjoy your school-aged children. And when you going out, Friday night, and not showing up until Sunday afternoon, what time do you have for your children during the weeks? And then you complain your kids are getting on your nerves when you do see them, and THEN, when you do show up during the weekend, it’s with a different man.
WHEW!
What killed me a thousand times was when , I went over to her house to talk to her about it, the different men where eveywhere, pictures of them and stuff. We went into the computer room and there was a picture of her current “friend” on the desktop of the computer. One of her kids walked in while she was talkin about it and everybody was ok …except me! I yelled….she thought I was jokin….I so sad about the situation.
She is very insensitive about the whole situation as far as the kids, and she really gets mad when somthin happens……we hear about it when one of the random dudes she met did somthin. Stole somethin from her and then if she told , anybody, they would contact her husband and tell him everything she told that dude. Or she’ll come pick up or drop off her kids at school with a bunch of hickies on her neck and can’t hide them with turtlenecks because it’ had been hot the last few days, and her hair ain’t that long so you can see them…And we see them so she’ll tell us where they came from. Sometimes you’ll see the different cars that be in her driveway. I have talked to her but I think it will take soemthin else to convince her to slow down…..and if you ask her what’s the deal, she’ll say, “I just wanna be held”…..”C’mon now, I ain’t doin nothin”…..But why you lyin?
*Sigh*
Take It Easy…..
