Permed Edges

I really do not understand people who cheat.  If you have someone in your life and you KNOW it’s somewhat exclusive and you care for them, why step out on them?  I have been devestated 2 times in my life by dudes I was with that I had found that was cheating on me.  Cheat-ing.  Not had cheat-ed…were still at the time I found out, they both were actively Cheat-ing.  I just don’ understand how people can lie and go on like it’s nothing.  Lyin sucks ass. It really does.  Honestly, I’d rather be an honest poor woman, than a rich liar like THIS lady….or THESE people.  I am neither poor or rich.  Bills are paid…. car still runnin, got some Cheerios on top of the fridge, some Kool-Aide packets in the pantry, but we gettin off task though…..

Cheaters…..I just don’t understand.  Some people use the excuse, they have been cheated on before, or they have had bad experiences, or they felt the relationship was already through. I have even heard of a black man cheating on his black wife (my friend) with a white woman, because though he supposedly loved his wife, she was cute to him and he just  wanted to see how it would be.  AND when he did, he kept going back because of the “contrast”, watching his black” “….go into her white…..”  “ , when they had relations. He told her this shit when she found out.   WTF??????????????  Man…moving the hell on…..  Folks be really trippin these days…..If he likes colors so much why don’t he find a woman with somethin, so he can have sex with her and the disease and see what color his “”  changes into?  Ok, that was mean…but I meant it. Hey, they  are no longer married, and it’s been and is going to be a long time before she gets into another relationship. .Anyway, when people say stuff like that, Those are nothing BUT excuses.  I never understood that.  It’s just a random thought…..

Take It Easy……