I got my last phone call about this last night before I decided this needs to be blogged about……. (AND THIS IS ONLY IN A NUTSHELL!!)
Don’t you hate it when you see somebody doing so well and they throw it all away for some lazy scuffed up pancake batter bum? There is a grown woman I know, that is in many ways a good example of success. That be ”DeeDee”. DeeDee has a couple college degrees, including a masters. Got them from a well known black college, graduated with top honors. She was single beautiful and had a good job. Till she met “Mike”.
Mike has 3 children, 2 of which is by one woman and the other is by another. He has custody of all. Mike looks like the bottom of a hair sheen can or an uncleaned bath tub. He doesn’t like to work and finds every excuse for why he isn’t. That is sad considering that HE ended up with his kids. He’s trash. He has been trash , long before DeeDee met him. When she met him, he was living with his brother and his wife, they have no children…be he do. DeeDee knew the brother’s wife and came over one day, to visit, and then the rest was history. Yep her history of doing good for herself went down.
My sister works with DeeDee. After Mike showed up in her life , after about a few weeks, there was new drama everyday. She wasn’t showing up to work as usual anymore and where she used to be in the money, she is always broke now. Recently, one of her 2 cars only she is on the registration for, got repossessed. She had like a year left to pay on it. WTF??? How did THAT happen? Mike, his broke ass seems to like the finer things in life so, she skipped on the payment to afford them. This dude must have the Mighty Morphin Power penis. I guess dirty or not , it must truly be an experience for DeeDee BECAUSE…..
DeeDee then moved out of her apartment and rented a house in a new area where my sister is buying hers. She moved into this place with Mike and his children. WTF???? She paid for everything, because Mike don’t know how to get anything that’s not part-time and feels when he’s ready, acting like his stank Tyone Biggums ass is highclass, will quit a job after only a few days if he doesn’t like it. Back to the movement. They actually live across the street from my sis now!! I laughed when she told me, but she gave me such a mean sideeye, that all of a sudden I grew cold inside and felt like I was gonna freeze up like them small animals the Ice Witch froze on Chronicles of Narnia.
DeeDee was close now. So she could just walk over and tell my sister about everything that’s going on. My sis said they are some strange people. Such a slow sad fall from grace all because of the ripped Hefty bag full of pissy diapers she decided to be with. DeeDee was eventually fired from her job she had been at for a while on suspicion of stealing company gift prize, Walmart cards. My sister said when they first moved in they had nothing. Every weekend the SUV she had never moved, in the driveway, because they were so broke, they couldn’t afford gas to even go nowhere. Deedee was up to her eyeballs in debt with friends and family, that if she did get some money, it would all go on bills and owing folks. SO it was strange one day, about a week before the firing, DeeDee invited my sister over. She never invited anyone over with the exception of when they first moved in. Before the invite, she had been complaining of being so broke, and not even being able to go to a loan place, and she was considering pawning her class ring for some cash. SO… it was strange that they didn’t have anything before but the house was now poppin. Home girl done took the company cards to spend on purchases for the new home. Mind you, these cards were bought for an up and coming company function , and they were to be used , along with other things, as prizes. They were totaling up towards the thousands, and guess who was in charge of them : DeeDee.
When the company asked about the whereabouts, DeeDee told them they were stolen from the office. SHE HAD no idea….Hmmmm…..Unfortunately for her…..they were traced back by the numbers collected on the reciepts. Girlfriend was so hard up for cash , she was willing to steal from her own co-workers and some friends. *Sigh* While she is doing all this at her job, Homely Huggins is back at the house sittin on his unemployed behind, calling up other women, (babymommas included).
So now her and that dune-buggy faced negro is sitting at the house broke, and got rent due this week, and DeeDee said she can’t pay it. Ugly Hugly done got her in so much debt, runnin up credit cards , applying for new ones, running those up, eatin out the firts week she gets her check to the finest restarant. Going hungry or scaveging the fridge and furniture for food the next week. Hair and Flies in the fridge but you got Sean John on wearing Usher’s cologne. Your kids wearing the latest kids clothes , but they hungry as hell, lookin like Somolians with bad perms and you living off your girlfriend that your with because you saw green and no strings, and she is supporting you. But that goldmine is finna run dry. They already 1 month behind in rent. My sister said it is so sad because she used to be so responsible, they used to hang out and go on trips with other friends and stuff. But she wanted to be with this man so much , that with the combined dumb decisions he had a hand in and his stankness for life, she is headed for worse things to come. This is truly sad……You that desperate to have man you willing to lower your standards for him. *cue western music* Desperado. This should be a low-budget BET Blackbuster film.
